I'd been terrified, but the Ambassador had proved perfectly delightful. An English-speaker, not an Afrikaaner, he and I chatted amiably—about our families, about life in D.C.. Soon feeling at ease, I'd set aside my luncheon plate, its rubbery chicken and limp salad mostly untouched, and attacked the more promising dessert. The Ambassador noticed and, placing his hand on my arm in an avuncular gesture, said, "But my dear, you can't live on pumpkin pie alone!"
Then it was time for the Q-and-A. Three years earlier, in Brown vs. Board of Education, the U.S. had been forced to begin the process of dismantling the legal structures separating its 15% black population. South Africa, with an 80% black population, was beginning to solidify them. The first question related to the recent decision to convert the bantustans into independent countries. No, the Ambassador did not question his government's policy on the bantustans....